Ramblings

Ok, so it's been a week. The schedule has been hectic and I haven't had much of a chance to think about anything, muchless post.

What to ramble about today? How about the differences in Pyche between men and women. Let's get this part over, I don't have Pyschology degree...these are only my thoughts.

Men don't like change, especially when it comes to their women. As you have matured (age...to put it bluntly), the relationship between a man and a woman goes through many different cycles...but why? My thought is it's the woman's fault (joking ladies...joking). They seduce you by doing all the things you want her to do. Oral, taking it in the ass, doing it in public places and stuff like that. She's looking to land her man and is willing to do whatever it takes to get married.

Then you get married and slowly these things stop. You get a blow job for your birthday (maybe), she will no longer go out in public without panties (muchless bend over the park bench for a quicky) and anal is absolutely out of the question (eeeewwww...that's gross...it doesn't matter that you use to pound it daily, suddenly she can't understand why you'd want to fuck her in the ass). You are reduced to the missionary position (and heaven forbid you can't stop eating her pussy). For some reason once married (and it get's worst once you have children), the woman's pysche either kicks in for the first time or her memory of past exploration is completely wiped and replaced with conservative mumbo jumbo, which by the way no longer includes providing physcal pleasure. Divorices are at a all time high and I wonder why that is.

Now, I'm on my second marriage, but I have to say that I learned from my first. I was bound and determined to find a woman that truely enjoyed the pleasure of sex and made it very clear that my desires after marriage would not change. I would provide the security she craved and desired and give her everything I could possibly give and in return I only ask for pleasure. Sometime I want to fuck and sometimes I want to make love, but I always want to have pleasure. We've been very successful in this, for the most part (medical issues with standing).

At this point the women know I'm full of shit...we have sex often, we are mostly reduced to the missionary position, there's not a chance in hell that I'm allowed to stop eating her (but then again I enjoy it a great deal), blow jobs are reserved for special occassions (of her choosing) and there are definately no extra curicular activities outside the house.

In most relationships, I think it is the woman that changes not the man and in the end (divorice) it's because the man couldn't adjust to the changes (or the woman couldn't abid by the lack of change). Men are for the most part single minded and it doesn't change with age. We want pleasure and really it doesn't require much to keep him satisfied in this areana. Sure I don't get all the things I want, but we still have have sex several times a week and that keeps me nearly content. I don't go looking for additional extra circular activities but when and if the present themselves, I have and would make the best of the opportunity.

My First Post

Let me start off by saying I've never done this before. I've only recently looked into Blogs and Blogging and found it very interesting. So, here I am.

I must say that in my high school days I enjoyed having a journal, however I found it was quit dangerous to have it lying around so eventually I stopped penning things. Blogging is now my avenue to say the things I've alway wanted to say (or write), without fear of retribution. I say that because obviously I'm not using my real name (what else?) to author this board.

My views are my own and like most (I think) I don't always communicate my true sentiments, usually because they can be a bit different than most. I think that's where Gemini really fits me. This is not to say I'm a liar, or that I like to lie, but that sometimes for the greater good of a situation. Case in point, I'm a happily married man and we have sex often (at least 3 times a week, depending on where the kids are). Would I or could I have sex with another woman? Yes, and no it would not bother my concious. It doesn't change the fact that I love my wife dearly and would do anything for her (I guess almost anything). I do not equate sex with love and can therefore separate the two entities. However you still have wrestle with honesty and the fact that your vows say that you have to have an honest relationship.

I will probably start tomorrow with more detailed subject matter, but hey this was a pretty good start.

I welcome any other view and comments, but not buligerance, there really isn't any reason or need for it. - BTW - I don't always spell check, so there may be some typos -